Am I being immature ?

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My partner had an almost affair :(
He was messaged his friends sister about meeting up for a date, I stopped them before they went on the date, but for me the betrayal still hurt.

His friends now getting married meaning his sister will be there. I can’t handle seeing his sister after her trying to steal my partner :( (yes she knew about me.) I have said I don’t want us going to the wedding, or if we do I won’t feel comfortable with him talking to his friends sister ! Is this me being very immature ? I really hate the thought of the two of them talking at the wedding :( is it reasonable after his betrayal for me to ask him to ignore her ? I don’t see why he needs to talk to her now - they aren’t friends and weren’t friends.

You certainly seem to have shifted perspectives from your initial post. Good luck with it all.

Eh? What? You met up with people behind his back but then changed your mind at the last minute, then he tried to sleep with his friends sister, but you found out at the 11th hr and thwarted his plans? This relationship is a mess .You will look back at this thread one day and see.
Nothing 'Lol'
about this. You have a child and this is how you both carry on.

No not behind his back- when I was younger and stupid and with someone that wasn’t the one for me, but I didn’t cheat.

Thank you everyone for your thoughts and helpful advice on how I deal with this situation. :) it’s been more than useful xx

Wow you’ve concocted a whole other story to what really did happen and he’s got clean away with it, yeah you go and give him full support so he doesn’t let his friend down the same friend who was in cahoots with him cheating on you with his sister.

You’re going to please him and show her you won the prize and what a prize you got.

You have no idea what messages passed between the two of them you were not included in the illicit ness of him trying to shag another woman even though you think you know it all, you only know his lies.

Your venom towards her is misguided, why would she apologise to you, she has no feelings or loyalty towards you and please stop making out she engineered it all and forced him to flirt back like some bloody innocent naive victim.

He pursued her for a date.

Your thread is littered with inaccuracies, first it’s him asking her for a date then it’s an almost affair then in fact It’s her just asking him to meet as friends oh and you’ve read all the messages.

Good luck, I hope one day you’ll at least be honest with yourself as well as folk trying to help.

If you’d told the truth I’d have some sympathy but it’s all a croc of shite.

She did clearly go after him , and I saw he was saying no

He should have blocked her number right then.

But he didn't.

Your 'D'P is an attention seeking sleazy cheat.

My advice? Don't go. It's clearly still upsetting you and nothing is worth that.

If he loves/respects you it will be a non-issue. It should be a non-issue considering what he almost did and the fact you have forgiven him.

Listen to your gut OP.