If you ended up choosing a stable man that didn't have as much "spark" between you as previous bad boys you may have dated, are you glad you did and did you every worry it was settling?

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Just that really.

If you got married to someone that wasn't all the crazy drama sparks of some of the previous people you dated, but your marriage now is very good, did you ever question it?

I am with a very lovely man after someone horrible past relationships. But the spark isn't the same. It makes me worried we aren't totally right together.

Yeah I wonder how many of those who need the drama of shitty treatment have experienced painful and distant relationships with either or both parents?