Hiya, i put this in chat but thought it may be better in this section.
Well he contacted me thru a dating siteand we have been chatting for 3 days, texting, now he's backed off, doesnt know what he's looking for bla bla.
He 'seemed' lovely, very intelligent, courteous, full of compliments.
I just had a 'feeling' that he was all round normal and good fun.
I know online dating is almost in another realm, yet HE was the one who suggested we meet up soon.
He even texted me last night to ask if I really honestly fancied him, does he have low self esteem?
We have spent 3 days saying we cant believe we like eacj other so much. I was wary, but trusted him, becuase sometimes you just have to take a chance.
I dunno, i have the saddest feeling now, and yesterday i was feeling so up and bright. I don't 'need' a man to make me feel ok, but after my break up a couple of yrs ago, I havent felt attractive or liked for such a long time.
I am so cross with myslef for being a fool, but thought i had to give him a chance.
He said its knocked him, too much too soon, feeling that we have so much in common so quick, yet is that not a good thing.
someone explain. iam sure i would understand it if i were giving somone else advice, but i can't see thru it atm. The last thing i need is to feel this way. pretty down.