I got pregnant, he fucked off.
Since she was 3, off and on every couple of years, I make contact with her father.
He begs and pleads to get to know her, frightens the shit out of me and so I block him.
She has never met him.
So, I am doing my periodic checking in to see if his contact details are still good and he is really really really really interested in getting to know her.
Meanwhile, she turned 14 and I showed her his picture and her response was I. DON'T. CARE.
Do I let her know how much he wants to know her?
Particularly interested in hearing from absentee Dads and mothers who had Dads fuck off.