My potentially narcissistic and angry dp has said he will definitely go to therapy, where previously he has not bothered. He has been making mine and my dd1's lives miserable for over a year now. Maybe even two years. We a have a two year old dd and my 6 yo dd (not his dd), who has got sensory and behavior issues.
Do I let him have another chance to actually do the things he says he will do? These are: he gets counselling, we go to couple's therapy, he backs off my dd1 who he has been upsetting with his behaviour, he apologies to my mum who he has been horrible to in the past, he stops talking to me like I'm a piece of shit, he starts showing me and dd1 some respect. Oh and he divorces his ex wife (they split over ten years ago).
He says he can't cope with the idea of losing everything and not seeing dd2 everyday, he wants to change. I'm not sure if it too late. Since I told him it wasn't working any more and it was over I felt relief but also I am worried about how I would cope alone with two girls. Has anyone given their dp one final chance and its actually worked?