reported the piece of scum

[looondonn]

drove to the police station multiple times over the past 4-5 months
chickened out
felt bad for him
felt maybe I did bring some of it on myself

the other night - he got an unexpected opportunity to shout at me
my reaction - I wee'd myself - not very nice
so - next day went to the police station
two very lovely female officers took my statement
was petrified but it had to be done
and for the first time ever - i told someone that he had raped me multiple times

who knows what will happen to him
he tried to kill his ex wife and got a caution
this time?
who knows - bit of a telling off? community service?

I will keep you all updated
some amazing people on here helped me in my darkest hour

Im in a dark place now but I know what i did was necessary or I would never be able to forgive myself for brushing it under the carpet

thinking of all those who are too afraid to speak up - please do
it took me 21 months but I did it and so can you

Well done speaking up, you did the right thing. Stay strong, you're stronger than he is!!!

for your bravery, OP Absolutely the right thing to do for you, for him and for any other unfortunate woman he may come into contact with.

A handhold from me lass.

yes

it is the next victim i worry for
i pictured opening a newspaper one day and reading that he had killed someone

I am stronger than him
feel awful now
have an 8 month old to look after but I will survive

Well done op. Let him feel the fear for a change. I hope he rots for what he's put you through.

You will heal and be whole again. Xx

Well done for going to the police station.

thank you

glad I made it in this time

somewhere the courage took hold of me and I was calm and coherent
chronologically I reported everything

You brave woman.
Well done, don’t ever doubt yourself, you have absolutely done the right thing.

will keep you all updated

sadly i know it wont go far
dont have much evidence -
I do have letter from a and e doctor after he tried to kill me and video footage of the bstard waiting for me while I hid inside a toliet shaking for hours

not sure what will happen next have heard nothing today

You should feel very proud.
Inner strength is truly amazing.

What a role model for your dd.


She will keep you right op.

We are all here for you

💐💐

Well done you xx

You are an amazing woman OP I'm in awe I wish I had the courage to do the same

Chorley
Do it if you can
Or tell others and get out
It is so hard I know sadly

I have seen some of your threads. I am so in awe of you, you are a .

Even if nothing comes of this legally, a lot comes of it for you - you were there for yourself and for your DC.

Be kind to yourself. Then do the Freedom Programme to become the strong woman you are inside.

Thank you guys

The words of many on here resonated in my head for months

Without he help on here I may be dead
Multiple times he lifted a knife to me

for those of you who have been in my situation
what helped?

I dont know how I will get through the next few weeks
it is all very scary
and I have not even done anything wrong :(

Well done for reporting him.

I sincerely hope you are not still living together.

Well done on reporting him OP.

I'm sorry you've been so badly treated. I hope you feel stronger after reporting him.

no will never have to see him again i hope

in court I hope to testify behind a screen - thats if it goes to court who knows

I want to put the scum behind me now and move on - it is very hard to let some of the things go

How brave you are, and what an inspirational mother, Looondonn. I'm hoping the bastard goes to jail.

You are amazing and brave op. . I hope the police take it very seriously.

You are incredible for doing this. The strength it took and that strength will keep growing now.

Thank you

He won't go to jail

He will sail his way through it all

The report I sent in has not even been looked at yet by the relevant team

But at least on his records this will remain for life

I hope he suffers in some way for what he did