Was that text for me?

[Kennycalmit]

Name changed.

Over my partners house, I’ve come upstairs to make a phone call. Literally only been up here 30 seconds when I get a text

“I could do you a very fun swap”.

Then straight after “sorry, wasn’t for you”

I’m now in the bathroom wondering what it meant and who it was for

Obviously I’m gunna ask him once he comes up.

I feel like I read this forum too much. I have no reason to not trust him but I’ve read too many posts on here about similar circumstances to know what this sometimes means

Swap of nude pics comes to mind ...

Are you on your phone or partners?

Actually, it,could be totally innocent,,and someone reliased they had dialled the wrong number.

No I’d be suspicious too. “Could do you a very fun swap” and waiting till you are out the room to send the text. What the hell is that!? Very strange indeed. If there’s an innocent explanation then I’m sure he’ll give you it but you’re not wrong for being suspicious.

I didn’t automatically think cheater from that text

Could be innocent? Unsure

Pic swapping is what springs to mind....

Hmm, I'd be asking questions.

Don’t let him have too long to come up with an explanation. Ask him now, face to face, who is was for.

I’m on my mobile.

You’re right it probably is innocent. I have NO reason to not trust him

But I’ve read this forum too many times to know that on many occasions Fuckit is right, these kinda texts often mean swapping photos of some sort.

I would have no idea but it would irritate the hell out of me

Bit confused. Who was the text from? Was it to your phone?

It’ll be interesting to see how he tries to explain that away,..

If it's innocent, the text that provoked that response will be on his phone for him to show you. ... or he could carry on about your insecurity and make it all about you, like a guilty fucker

Does he have explicit photos of you?

Forget waiting for him to come up! Go downstairs and ask.

Bit confused. Who was the text from? Was it to your phone?

I came upstairs to quickly use my phone. Said I’d be down in a bit. I wasn’t upstairs 30 seconds when my boyfriend text me that text then another one straight after saying it wasn’t meant for me

Anything else that could be an indicator?

I would just ask him and go by his reaction. Could be as PP has said such as nude pics, but I have used pretty much the same phrase in response to boring grown up chats such as friend: ‘ I’ve such a busy day at work tomorrow’ Me: ‘I’ll swap it will be fun ’ - me meaning I have the day off with the kids, been sarcastic to friend. That text alone could look dodgy but in context it’s nothing of the sort.

Does he have explicit photos of you?

Yes

Forget waiting for him to come up! Go downstairs and ask

His parents are there

Sorry sounds a bit iffy to me. I'd be asking him.

I’m in the bathroom and he’s now in the room. Im gunna go ask.

Fucksaaaake

I’m 99% sure it’s innocent but clearly this forum has made me paranoid/wise to know that’s not always the case

He's got explicit photo's of you??

Not good

Having been on online dating sites over the years, the word ‘fun’ would set off alarm bells for me.

I don't think you're being paranoid. I think he's up to something

If this is innocent; he'll have the conversation that this should have been part of (and probably, by now, the response). So he'll be able to put your mind completely at rest.

Unfortunately from just this text; it's too devoid of context to know anything. It could be innocent or it could not be.