Hello all, I’m 43 and been with my wife for 16 years. Two kids 7 and 10. Just recently my wife has informed me that she no longer has the urge or drive to want any closeness or physical relationship. We both have a good jobs we enjoy and great kids. She came off the pill over a year ago to see if her libido would improve. For a while things seemed better but she’s just growing further away from me. I’ve tried all I can to help but no joy. We’re going for some marriage councilling soon at last. We’re not arguing or bickering and I’m the one making all the effort to resolve the issues. I’m totally lost. No one else involved. I can’t get her to open up to me and talk. I feel I can’t initiate sex anymore as I don’t feel she wants me etc. Any advice much appreciated