Oh holly thats right it must be totally and utterly the mans fault, the events are probably innocent emails to collugues because a woman would NEVER, cheat would she? No no no.
Bloody hell if a woman came on and wrote this post about her husband would you be asking whaf the events were would you be sharing your experience of your boyfriend being paronoid? But cos its a man, oh of course, anything he says it must be the same as your situation.
bert i'll say the same to you, if this was written by a woman, would you call her "unhinged"? But cos its a male who wanys to some how carry on.after an affair, he just wants to know what hes dealling with, oh hes unhinged.
chicken listed to bert, she hasnt given any advice to listen to just Called some one unhinged
Anyway OP, I suspect the reason your being called what bert called you is because you seem to think that if she tells you you can save your marriage. And maybe you will, but of she doesng love you, then honestly, im not sure theres anything left to save. You probaly need to accept that, yes its going to be bery psinful. But shes already checked out of the marriage.