Yes, plural.
Been together for 8 years, not married but lived together for 7 years, no DC. DP has been amazing while I've been ill with depression for the last few years. Now I'm recovering well, trying to get back to pulling my weight in the relationship, making suggestions for things to do etc.
DP has been down recently, told me it was work and as he has a v stressful and responsible job I believed him when he said that's all it was.
Just found online dating profiles. Profile photo is part of a holiday photo canvas in our fucking bedroom. I feel sick and I'm shaking. WTF do I do? I feel guilty for all the shit he's had to deal with in regards to my health but what the hell?
Has anyone ever been able to get over something like this? If it's "just" chatting I think I can deal but if he's even touched someone else I'm gone.