He waved! What does this mean - no pi$$ taking please!

[lampostposter]

I posted my message to the man I have a crush on on the lamp post as previously planned. He waved!

I am deliriously happy and excited that my crush may become real - I really have gone mad over this one.

However, he hasn't emailed me.

Was this a "Christ, you're mad" sort of wave do you think? He did smile and not in a sympathetic kind of way, more flirty.

How do I respond?

Hiya!

Not so good at the cover name, me.

I was running late as I'd forgotten to take ds's shoes out of the machine after he trashed them on a farm visit yesterday. Think I may have spent too long deliberating over whether to style hair or run out of the door in a mess.

went for latter and was still late.

So, I will better prepare myself for tomorrow.

Bit disappointed to have missed my opportunity!

Would it help if I told you my husband worked at HOSDB for 5 years (left in January this year). If I can work out who it is, I can pass on a message!

Thank God he left in January Gursky..

This thread has made me giggle.. and wish you well NewLife. People are way to uptight sometimes!

Hyperventilates!

I absolutely do promise I would no more than I have if he turned out to be attached. I am mortified that he may be, as the note feels eurgh if so!

Well, he is black and always wears black socks!

you IDDNT Put a note up
PLEASE NO
how desperate

Yes I did. I'm keen with limited means, not desperate.

oh no more please
dont wave
post notes wroanything

Desperate? That's a bit harsh! She's just having fun!

no she is deperate
ill tell ya
he likes you hell find you

No, not desperate.

Do you mean generally or desperate for HOSDB man?

for him
i haev no idea re other

Oh don't listen to cod. Wouldn't MN, indeed the world, be a boring place if we ALL did everything her way!

I am used to Cod. Cod, I feel you represent highly rational societal members which is kind of helpful some of the time.

Hoping he is not one of them as we will be a mismatch.

Aw cod, dont....this could be the beginning of something good

"It's the starrrrt... of something neeeeeew" [cue highpitched american High School Musical Voice]

Will you invite the lamp post to the wedding? Or a least buy it a ribbon...

Where's Gursky gone?!

Still here! I need to check something with husband (who is irritatingly having a lunch time meeting), but - and I hate to say it - I think he's taken

I will be relieved to know regardless! Thank you!

Have checked my facts .... he is spoken for and has a baby under 1. Sorry to be the bringer of bad news .

But I think what you did was great - how brilliant to take a chance. Life would be very dull if we all met in night clubs.

Apparently the women at HOSDB rate him the best looking male on site - so you have excellent taste. There are also quite a few single men who work there, so keep on looking!

Aha! Maybe my note will have made him feel better about any post baby bleary eyedness then!

Glad my taste is intact. Shame I have not made any other good selections recently. Match.com is proving disappointing.

Harman, I am empathising greatly dear.

Gursky, you have saved me a heck of a lot of grief, thank you muchly.

(I do have some grief still though )

I've been watching this thread and now am v. sad that it looks like it's coming to an end . I was waiting with bated breath to have my faith in romance and happy ever after and sense of adventure restored. Is it definately the same man?

I'm afraid it is the same man - not many people walk to work there (it is in the middle of fields) and I ocassionally used to give him a lift when dropping off DH.

Sorry Newlife. I'm sure you gave him a real confidence boost though.

Keep the faith in romance...

i think it is great that you took a chance, i have been single for 2 years and would never do something like that!!
good for you

I am mourning.

Lord knows what the poor guy thought about how to respond.

Ho hum...

Thanks for the thumbs up, it helps with the sting of mortification.