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Man crying after sex?

55 replies

Whatthewhatthe · 03/08/2018 21:22

I recently reconnected with an long term ex partner after11 years. We are both going through tough divorces.

We went for dinner and drinks. We got on really well after having no contact at all for such a longtime. He ended up at my house. We had sex.
Immediately after we finished having sex, he started crying saying he has no feelings for me,

Is this a normal thing? His actions and words just don’t match. Should I try and see him again?

OP posts:
dragonflyflew · 04/08/2018 16:31

Guaranteed he lied about the one night stand. I’ve been fed this line too . More than once.

Watda · 04/08/2018 16:49

Oh come on - I think calling someone who tells you he has no feelings for you immediately after sex ‘thoughtless’ is understating matters somewhat. Hmm That is hugely hurtful. Yes, it might be true but ten seconds after he’s whipped his knob out of you is not the time to announce this FFS.

OP run very far and very fast away from this one.

birdsdestiny · 04/08/2018 18:47

I used too many words. Can't polish a turd is much more helpful.

Whatthewhatthe · 04/08/2018 19:55

All of the advice to run is right, of course.
I was with this guy for 8 years and ended it and then married an emotionally abusive man. I have thought of often I’ve the years and I guess I might have had a fairytale renunion!

But he’s behaviour is unacceptable , he’s in really bad place and I don’t need the drama.
Thank you all for giving me the strength to step back.

OP posts:
Yesnontoyesno · 16/12/2018 13:15

Something similar to This happened to me recently. I am struggling with accepting the rejection. I feel so shit about myself. I can’t move forward and feel like I will struggle to ever have sex again.
How can I move past this?

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