So my DH and I haven't really had sex for years. He shows me no attention or affection at all. He is not interested in sex or even a kiss with me. But I am the same as I think over the years we have just grown apart and don't find each other attractive any more.
The thing is I am 35 now and for the first time in years I seem to have a sex drive. I have lost some weight recently, I don't know if that has anything to do with it but I keep craving sex- but not with my DH. I fantasise about other people and am desperate for some passion and sexual chemistry with someone.
I don't know what to do really as I am naturally very shy and not exactly beautiful although I get some attention. How do I kill my sex drive?!