There's a man I am really, really attracted to in a way which is unusual for me. I didn't think anything would ever come of it, but I've recently heard from him. In the interest of full disclosure he's my ex tutor from university. I've only seen him for a max of 45 minutes a week for a year, had a few chats but nothing major.
He's sent a couple of strong messages and it's ringing alarm bells. Just seems a bit too "smooth" and intense to be genuine. What do you think? I don't know whether to stay away or if I'm too cynical due to past experiences of knobheads!
Message 1: don't stay away too long as I have a very strong suspicion I could really make you very happy!! Who knows, maybe that would truly be for the first time! Xxx
Message 2: One final thing I'm confused about that you might be able to help me with. How in gods name can a girl as incredible as you ever need to be considering getting back with a guy?!! How did that guy ever manage to be so foolish as to let you go in the first place?! I don't get it! But anyway, you don't really need to answer. Just know I wouldn't make that mistake. I know what I've got when I've got it, and I don't let it go! Especially so if she was as special as you. Just something to think about xxx
Too much to be genuine?! Or am I being cynical??