I'll just be honest.
If anyone reading this has been abused, please don't read on.
I have a bad case of vaginismus. I was abused by my dad as a child.
I was able to have sex, before I recalled the memories... I still can't get past it, 30 years later.
I've been with my partner for 18 years. I want to be intimate with him. We've had mutual fun on many occasions, but I still can't go all the way as it is the most hideous agony ever.
He is amazing, and all I need is some advice... please help!