Wrappergate...with swearing to try to stop asshole journalists

[OhdamnwhatdoIdo]

So if you were following my original thread....now deleted courtesy of Rebecca Flood - asshat. Fuck you, lady. Piece of shit.....anyways

DH decided to grill DS14 on the mysterious rubbish.
It was not DS14's but the conversation led round to it being one of DS's friends from the party. That seemed to be a resolution Dh was happy with and DS went along with ( largely to get DH to shut up). I was evesdroppig.
But.
There was no trash in the laudry before I went away. There was no laundry to wash. The party was cleaned up from.

So, I think it was Dh. but I don't want to think that.But why would he be so daft as to leave it there? An accident?
I can't do confrontations. I have form for being suspicious and sayig something (once) ended up feeling like a fool and feel that if I am wrong, which is slighlty possible , I'll come across as a fat , paranoid obsessive which will damage things more.
I believe our relationship needs work, but I'm so useless I can't even talk about that. I always start coversations and they end up being about things I need to work on, not the other way around.
I panicked last night, when DH asked if I had asked DS14 and said no. Technically I wasn't lying but missed an opportunity I guess.

There is no evidence in the house. Or on phones.

I am calm, resigned to not knowing and hopeless.

To me that brand would point to a teenager getting a freebie not an adult who grew up on durex and mates buying them at Boots

I think OP is not in the uk as this is a popular condom in another country, where Durex isn’t as popular.

Taking that into account (if i’m correct) it points to being more likely to have been your DH. Does he normally buy stuff on a card or with cash? Wondering if whether you go through his banking it would reveal anything?

"just said it was one of those mysteries that will be resolved in time."

What did he mean by that?

There's going to be no resolution on this incident, I feel.
He did pop onto a couple of porn websites while I was gone . On the afternoon he has off . I have no way of knowing if he regularly does this, as I have't checked before. Not one of the boys as was on his tablet.

I won't but I really want to grill the boys to be sure.
It's going to goddamn taint everything ad I'll never know the fuckig answer I guess.

I shall just carry on I guess, with one eye brow raised.

Wow amazing bit of wriggling he did on the hook to turn it to what if you cheated! Why would he even think to bring that up apart from to put you on the defensive and try and get you to end the conversation/go into convincing him you hadn't so what has happened is glossed over.

You really should get an STI test. Condoms don't protect from everything.

one thing I did think-was your DH present when the DC had their friends over?

It’s very strange how out of character he’s acting. Scum journalist. Just wanted that in there! Agree with what others have posted or or both