I need some advice really. I split from my ex last year and he still won't except it's over. We have dc together and during the time we were together he treated me like his property. He never listened to what I actually wanted or anything really and was extremely jealous of our children to the point he tried to get his family to have them at every opportunity. He wore me down so much over the decade we were together that I was a shell of a person. I was blank to the world and just sad really. Anyway I finally got the strength to leave but he just won't accept it's over.
I never give him any reason to think we are together just arrange for him to see the dc and that's it but he will drop them off I will say bye and then get a text later on saying things like "I could tell you really wanted to kiss me today!" I tend to just ignore them or write nope but he just doesn't get it. I've told him so many times I never want to be with him again and his reply is "your just playing hard to get" which makes my skin crawl as that was his view on everything I said no to when we were together.
What worries me more is for the last couple of weeks he has been unable to see the dc due to a safe guarding issue found out by the school. It's really serious and I am completely non contact with him. I can't believe i never knew about his awful temper and my poor dc have been dealing with it on their own all this time.
The thing is since the initial "it's not fair your keeping MY children away from me text (with the capital MY included) he keeps texting that he knows I'm doing this as I'm trying to hide my feelings and also telling me how he can't wait to take me on holiday sometime. He's bloody delusional and it's a bit scary. He calls to say stuff like it too but I just hang up. I don't reply to this and haven't for nearly a year bit he won't stop. It's like I have a few days I think finally he's stopped and then it starts again. Is there anything I can do? Has anyone else had this? He's completely delusional.