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URGENT! IM NOT SAFE

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kristrose · 09/06/2018 20:01

my boyfriend is controlling,mentally and physically abusive. weve had a massive row over me not wanting his friends to come over because him and his friends girlfriend gawk over each other and flirt in front of my face. as soon as they come over he starts with the name calling. I'm sick of him. I'm pregnant with his second child and recently hes started being abusive. he started slapping me. a few weeks ago he gave me a black eye,hes a mean controlling bully and ive had enough. ive kicked him out but he has a key and i don't want him coming back here. if i ring 101 on him will they tell him he cant come back to my house? i want the police to know about this. I'm sick of him pushing me around and making me feel like shit. I'm done,me and my children don't need this negativity or abuse in our lifes. i don't want them growing up thinking that this is okay,he calls me a fat slut,im hanging and lazy bare in mind I'm not allowed to leave my house and if i do he kicks off so i just stay in to avoid arguments. what can i do to make sure he doesn't come back here? he has a key but i want him gone!! enough is enough,im not being scared everytime we argue because he snaps and slaps me. I'm done. what can i do

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umabea · 10/06/2018 00:35

Call the Police if you are in immediate danger. Or Women's Aid - find local or national number, any of them will help you. Do NOT stay and put up with this shit - get out for your own and your children's sake. No woman deserves this, ever. Sisterhood x

Mummyoflittledragon · 10/06/2018 06:09

We hope you’re safe. Please tell us you are.

CharBar39 · 10/06/2018 09:55

I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this. I know the thought of ringing the police is terrifying but I promise you they will help you! Where do you live? Can you see if there is a woman's refuge or domestic violence charity in your area, I know in Milton Keynes we have MKact.

BettyBaggins · 10/06/2018 10:12

How are you today op?

Aridane · 10/06/2018 10:12

Hope,you’re OK

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