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Apparently sleeping with a prostitute on your stag do is ok

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Somekindoflove · 08/06/2018 23:13

DP of over a decade told me tonight that sleeping with a stripper on your stage do is totally ok as long as they are attractive. He’s drunk. I am absolutely fuming and he can’t ujdrrsrand why. We aren’t married and have three children together. I am full time carer for our last child who is disabled. Therefore I have no means financially to leave. I am raging. Can anyone give me some advice? Pls tell me I’m not over reacting.

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diddlemethis · 09/06/2018 15:56

He is telling you who he is. Listen to him rather than any fantasy you might have that he is better than this.

Huskylover1 · 09/06/2018 16:04

Of course this isn't normal! Anyone normalising fucking prostitutes, especially when in a relationship, is honestly scum.

Regarding your exit plan, take copies of his wage slips, lest he lie to CMS. Shame you aren't married, you could have had half his pension.

Opheliah · 09/06/2018 16:12

Came as strippers, left as prostitutes

Uh... no they arrived as prostitutes and left as prostitutes.
All of the interactions would have been agreed beforehand.

StealthPolarBear · 09/06/2018 16:12

I can't velieve people are making suggestions to marry him

Opheliah · 09/06/2018 16:14

Before'hand' lol....

goose1964 · 09/06/2018 18:21

Sleeping with anyone during s relationship is wrong whether it's free or paid . Stag dos are for drinking and drawing on the groom's face when he passes out.

greendale17 · 09/06/2018 18:24

And as for "letting him marry her" , his sister is not his posession, its not down to him if she marries the BIL and not his place to 'let him'.

^I agree.

CheggarsPlaysPlop · 09/06/2018 19:56

He sounds really rather repellent. Is there a way you can persuade him to put you on the deeds of the house as joint tenants? This is what I have done. I was engaged to the father of my kids but we didn't manage to agree on anything when it came to a wedding. This was the compromise and it offered me and the children some protection, and was seen as a token of trust and commitment. This way I own half the house. The least he could do after having 3 kids with him. Thank god I did this as I am trying to get the bastard to leave and live in one of his many other properties that I have no entitlement to because we aren't married. That stag do sounds as seedy as fuck

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