Would you be angry if ..

[Peachsnowpop]

Ur DH told u he fancied his mates sons girlfriend (16) and he thought she was fit stunning and gorgeous? DH is 41 btw.

Also last year while holding my hand along the street DH saw a woman and said 'hello beautiful'

If you said to him about a 16 year old "oh she is so beautiful - don't remember girls being as lovely as that in my day" and he said "she's a nice looking girl alright" that's one thing.

What he said - he's a sleazy and grim and I would be rethinking whether he was good enough for me.

Alarm bells would be ringing if it was my partner.

Just creepy.

Just saying.

A man saying a teenage girl is beautiful or similar always makes me feel a bit uneasy. If a man said he actually fancied her then I'd be calling him a paedophile to his face. It's just wrong!

Well I'd describe a teenage boy as good looking or handsome, so I don't think there's anything creepy about an accurate adjective in the right context.

But 'fit', saying you fancy them, saying it in front of a partner, creepy and horrible and wrong.

My ex commented on a woman's 'nice tits' when I was in earshot. In that context it was sleazy and disrespectful. It was noted as one of the points on the divorce papers I served him with a few months later.

I wouldn't stop at anger. Id be getting divorced because it would disgust me. There's no point in being married to a man I'm disgusted with.

I have a 15 and 18 year old DD and if a 41 year old man was saying that about either of them ... it would make my skin crawl... especially if it was DHs friend.

I couldn't bring myself to have sex with a sleaze like him.

I bet his friend would not be impressed to hear that.

Also last year while holding my hand along the street DH saw a woman and said 'hello beautiful'

Why are you with this man?

People treat you how you let them in life. You've allowed him to disrespect you. Are you that insignificant to him?

What would his reaction be if you were walking with him and said "Hi handsome" to a random man on the street?

Your DH sounds like an insecure man... seeking some kind of attention.

Disgusted.

I have a dd this age and would prefer to think that the dads of the boys she is friends with would feel protective of their sons girl friends. If i met one of my dd's boy pals out, and he was stranded, inebriated, upset etc, i would want to help. Comments like your H's make me worry that even the dads would capitalise, not protect.

@Supermum1 👑 i wouldnt overlook that either.