why he doesn't want to marry me

[Carolec71]

I have been with my partner for 4 yrs and have a child together but it is really starting to annoy me I have tried to talk to him about it he says that he will one day but hasn't said anything about it. am running out of ideas I have even gone to leaving hints around the house. but nothing is working

Slightly off topic. But did harry really propose to the 2 other girlfriends???

I agree that a grown up conversation is in order. Don't let him fob you off with the 'one day' bullshit - after 4 years he knows whether he sees his future with you or not!
If he isn't willing to commit, my advice is that you don't either - keep yoursrlf employed, make sure your name is on any assets, have your own bank account and money and don't prioritise him over doing what is best for you.

You need to decide if you want marriage enough to give an ultimatum and then really follow through.
It would break my heart to spend my life with someone that didn't want to marry me so in your shoes I'd leave.
All these women in this position , for goodness sake stop having babies before marriage !
These men that don't believe in marriage generally do with the next girlfriend