is my dp gay?

[rdk]

ive been with my dp for 6 years but all of a sudden hes turned funny in the bedroom and he enjoyes anul pleasure (eg things up his back passage) which i find disgusting as hes never mentioned it before do you think theres something going on. sorry but i have no one i can openly speak to about this as im so confused please help x

Doubt it means he is gay.
People's fantasies can often be a guide, although even totally straight people will have the odd fantasy about someone of the opposite sex. Look at all the women coming out as Angelina-fanciers and rthe like over in the Men's Room!

Talk to him.

Nell Mc Andrew for me unquiet dad

you should have seen sex and the city last night rdk they were discussing the same subject, you're not alone! it was apparently the new thing (he didn't watch the episode by any chance did he?)

Km - i think i have answered this thread 3 times all with helpfull comments. i dont understand why you are so angry about it

YES!

We haven't had one of these threads in a long time!

Where's NotQuiteCockney?!

Over here, NQC, tell them all what 'pegging' is?

Well it's quite possible he's been pleasuring himself up the back entrance for a while before he got brave enough to talk to you about it, OP (with toys or, er, various household implements). There is, of course, no reason why you should do anything sexually which horrifies you, but, as other posters have said, an awful lot of people like some ringpiece stimulation and it doesn't necessarily indicate anything about their place on the Kinsey heterosexuality scale. Do talk it through with your chap in a nice calm friendly way and bear in mind that a lot of girls find they really quite enjoy being the strap-on goddess of doom (or as a mate of mine once put it, a raider of the lost arse).

How does a male pleasure himself up the jacksie without being some kind of contortionist?

the same way a woman would. there is about an inch difference.

Oh

So do woman actually do themselves up the arse through choice

starnge topic for a first on MN
`o smell a troll too - not nice

no but a man would be abkle tio stimulate himself anuly in the same way a woman would vaginally.

lay on a bed, open legs and stick it in...to be graphic.

why would they need to contort?

if theres an orifice - it can be filled.

trolly trolly troll troll

"raider of the lost arse"

Thanks madamez - I needed a chuckle today - that's pure quality.

Devil's avocado: if you can reach to wipe, you can reach to insert a vibrator/cucumber/lightbulb up your poop chute. THough, dear MNers, anyone contemplating this should take the following precuations: always use something that's smooth (or cover it with a condom) and has a flared base so it doesn't slip up inside. Unless you really have a thing for providing overworked casualty staff with their Good Laugh of the week.

Oh and yes, some women enjoy anal stimulation. Nothing wrong with it, if you like it (and do it with the usual care and common sense).

'he was really loose in that area'

Compared to whom?

Arf at 'raiders of the lost arse'

Also the sequel 'Indiana Jones and the Temple of Stool'

"if you can reach to wipe" she's obviously never had itchy piles.

OMG. that is horrendous Fio. what are you going to do? i think your should goodle "the friends and family of graham norton fanciers association."

or Electric shock therapy

unless he's calling you Keith and asking you to stop shaving your legs, i think you're safe.

@ Keith..