He’s got someone else pregnant

[lindsayville]

So 7 months in to something I thought was really special my dp has confessed to me he slept with someone else and she’s now pregnant. I’m devastated he thinks we can fix it. My gut is saying it’s better to walk now if he can hurt me this much so early in..what’s the mn view?

Just read update.

You have definitely made the right decision.
He sounds like an absolute knobend

I can't even think of one single reason to stay!

I am so sorry for your hurt. Betrayal is dreadful and your confidence really takes a hit BUT, at least you know this now and not later on with more invested in the relationship.
100% walk away. There is no way back and no way you deserve this. This man has damaged your trust, put you at risk of std 's, and is not taking responsibility for the life he has created. Just feathering his own nest. Do not enable he will do this again .You are worth more.
Be brave and don't look back .

Yuk all that unprotected sex. Go and get a screen too, OP!

Well rid too.

he says he has no intention of having anything to do with the baby
Oh God you have made the right decision. What an arse!

Wow what a turd. So he already has form for not using protection during ONSs and fathering children. Now he’s done it again. Bloody hell I hope they all come for him for child support.

Congratulations on your lucky escape OP.

It's shit now, but you'll look back & realise you've done the right thing.

Now block all contact with him & get yourself tested for STIs.

Before I came on the scene he only saw his girls occasionally (there 5) then they where staying at mine every Saturday night. I am a mum to 4 so you can imagine how crazy my house was at weekends and it was me doing the parenting. I feel so sad for his daughters and mine because they are similar in age and had bonded and he has ripped that apart to.

In the future, don't introduce some bloke you have been going out with the dating equivalent of 5 minutes to your kids. His kids had no business bonding with yours. Also please work on your boundaries and self-esteem, you shouldn't be giving the time of day to some bloke who's already walked out on 2 of his kids.

Funny how he only sees his kids when there's a spare woman around to look after them for him. If he isn't in a relationship then he doesn't bother with his kids.

This guy is an utter waste of space.

Expat in Scotland I’m a single parent as well does that mean no one should give me the time of day? I don’t have self esteem issues I wasn’t aware of the full facts to recently. Maybe it was soon for the kids but it’s happened now and those littlest girls have a stable home for at least one night per week so I have no regrets.

Sorry about what happened to his girls
Run.