He’s got someone else pregnant

[lindsayville]

So 7 months in to something I thought was really special my dp has confessed to me he slept with someone else and she’s now pregnant. I’m devastated he thinks we can fix it. My gut is saying it’s better to walk now if he can hurt me this much so early in..what’s the mn view?

I am really sorry for you, but do you seriously even need to ASK?

Of COURSE you should leave him. He is a lying, cheating, fucking bastard!

He has something else he needs to get sorted.

If I were you I would walk. I don't think I'd be able to accept losing he joys of a new relationship to having to deal with another understandably upset woman - who may be as shocked about your existence as you are bout her.

He hasn't got his priorities right about anything!

I'd walk away.

He's already shown you he's a cheater.

Cut your losses.

He has a bad case of loss of zipper control. It won't improve. Don't walk, dash.

He’s worth zero effort, dump and block and live your life free of that shit head.

So sorry op. I don't think I could live with this.

He has had to admit to sleeping with this one person as she is pregnant. How many women has he slept with in your time that haven’t resulted in a pregnancy?
Run to the clinic as fast as you can and get yourself checked. Then keep running as fast as you can away from this twat. You will get a better man.

You deserve a better man.

Run for the hills.

Leave now and don't look back. What a knob.

Run as fast as you possibly can

Run and don't look back. All this situation can do is bring you further heartbreak

You should still be in honeymoon period and he hasn't been able to keep it in his pants... don't stick around

Sorry, are you 7 months pregnant yourself in or 7 months into the relationship?

It’s only been 7 months and already he’s cheated. Run run run. You deserve better. He can’t ‘fix’ it. There will be a child there, always.

"I’m devastated he thinks we can fix it."

Where's the we in this? Did you also have sex with someone else and create a baby?

No? Then you have nothing to fix.

Cheeky bastard, trying to make you co-responsible for fixing something that HE did.

He didn't tell you immediately after he slept with her, did he? Nope, he waited until she confirmed her pregnancy and it would be public knowledge. And only then does he come clean to you. Saying that we can fix this.

Urgh.

Walk, and I say that as someone who has been in your position. If you dont this will always torment you.

Run run run. And don't look back, a man who dies this is not worth it

Walk away. 7 months in he should be madly in love, not cheating. Bad enough to cheat but to not use protection and get someone else pregnant is the behaviour of a total bastard.

Unless it’s a very long relationship or there are kids to consider I don’t think it’s worth staying with a cheater. Run for the hills.

oh my goodness WALK away... RUN away even

Do not waste any further time on this man.

I know someone who stayed in this scenario...because she was pregnant herself. They are not still together funnily enough

He doesn’t care about STIs, HIV or pregnancy, to wear a condom.

Definitely walk. If he can't even stay faithful for 7 months you have no chance of this ending in anything other than pain.

I'm not sure I'd think of him as a DP that soon.

Anyway, that's by the bye. To answer your question, RUN.