That's it really. He sloped off to the spare room after am uncomfortable half an hour and has barely spoken to me this morning. I just didn't feel like it. I admit it has slowed right down since two kids, not much sleep for nearly 6 years and some quite significant marital problems but I shouldn't feel punished should I? Nearly every interaction we have has a sexual undertone with him and I find it really offputting and there have been other occasions where he's not spoken to me for a while, sometimes days and then all of a sudden forgives whatever my transgression was and is all lovey-dovey again. The worst was not talking for three days then walking up to me and without a word just sticking his tongue in my mouth in a full-on snog. I felt invaded and have since told him so.
I know he's EA and we are in a very sticky wicket right now. I want to leave but just don't know how or if I'm strong enough because when it's good it's great . It's the cycle I know having read threads on here. I know he's accessed my phone etc and early on in our relationship I found photos on our camera that he'd taken of my journal. Gah.
What do I do about this situation with the sex? I don't want to feel like I can't just not want it. We are clearly mismatched in this regard.