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[Sophiee96]

Hi, I had a little snoop on my boyfriends phone the other day to see viva street in his web searches.. I wasn't sure what it was until I searched it myself to see it was for escorts?! I haven't mentioned anything as I just thought it was a pop up from porn? I've been on porn sites in the past and not once has that site popped up so am I just making excuses? I know if I say something he will deny it and get defensive so I don't know what to do? Is it just a pop up? Has he deliberately searched it? Help?!

I don't believe it is a pop up, sorry.

I was suppose to put VIVASTREET my bad!

And do you honestly think that really?

Why were you snooping...is there some context that made you suspicious? Because if there is, thats obviously relevant.

Is it a pop up? You said it came up in his searches, so no he searched for it! Unless you mean it came up in his history (which could be a pop up). Overall I would say its probably not a pop up.

If you often share each others phones, then ask "whats Viva street?". He will say he doesnt know, etc. But his response may give him away. This only really works one way, though. If he is a bad liar, it will be pretty obvious he knows exactly what it is despite his lies. If he is innocent it wont be....but there are also plenty of good liars.

Also be prepared for him claiming he was just looking for titillation, would never actually use one, etc

I like been nosey haha I do trust him, which is why I'm so confused by this search? Whether he's done it on purpose or it's just a harmless pop up from porn.

Afraid so. Go get a check up and think about whether you've noticed any other changes. Might help you put the pieces together.

I’m not sure you should be saying ‘haha’ when you have invaded someone’s privacy and now it looks like it might have backfired. If it is in his search history he will have searched for it.

Well I looked on his history to see that along with dirty tinder.. which I know is a popup.

I know if I asked he would ask why I've been on his phone and he would deny it and it would probably cause an argument. He is a very good liar. I'm going to try look on his google search and if it has a little clock next to it, it means he's searched it.

I'm saying haha because I'm trying to make light of the situation.. every girl loves a nosey! I just hope it's not what I think

OP: tinder isn't a pop up. Its an app you download, and it isn't all dirty either, it is not just a hook up app. But if he has it, I bet my life he has downloaded it and he is looking for a hook up or a kick out of it by talking to girls, even if he doesn't go through with it, he is looking elsewhere.

I am on tinder, I have seen guys locally I know are married, one even has his profile picture of him and his newborn.

And I never ever looked at anyones phone, so not every girl likes a nosey.

It's a pop up of a rip of version of tinder, it's called dirty tinder.
If he would be on tinder I would see it in his last downloads. This was a webpage

Every “girl” (hoping you’re actually a woman, not a girl) doesn’t. I’ve been with my DH for 11 years and I’ve never looked on his phone or computer. No need, I trust him.

How do you know he’s a good liar?

Was it web history or search history? I’ve never seen a pop up come up in my history, unless I’ve clicked on it.

Just to be clear....if you had no previous legitimate reason to be suspicious then not every girl loves a "nosey". Its a breach of trust to be looking at your partners phone (without permission). If you suspected he was up to something; cheating, etc, then thats a bit different. But you shouldnt just be entertaining yourself by looking through his phone...
I assume you werent doing that, though. So what made you suspicious?

Ok, why do I feel like I'm getting attacked. I only wanted some advise on the matter. We've had problems in the past. We parted ways for a while then got back together. Yes I know it's not great going on his phone

You aren't being attacked. They are asking for the backstory, the reasons that made you snoop in the first place.
It isn't a girl woman thing it's likely your gut telling you something is off.

If you want a straight answer then Yes.
Based on every similar thread I've read he downloaded it and used it. You will find more.
Now you will tell me he isn't like that.

Why do you think the dirty tinder is a pop up?

I have never heard of it, but I assume it is a pure hook up site.

When you say you had problems in the past, did he cheat? If so, I am afraid he is probably wanting to do so or is again.

It's not a pop up, legitimate escort sites don't pop up ever, he's gone looking.

Speaking from experience.

When we were together last time I found him on dating sites etc.. our relationship fell apart, we weren't happy. We parted ways for a year or so and got back together. We've been happy ever since. My gut was telling me to look so I did and I saw that

I know dirty tinder is a pop up, I've been on porn before and it's come up

Yeah the dirty tinder in 100% pop up but I can promise you the escort site isn't.

You say you trust him but you obviously don’t. Cut your losses. If he has cheated before and you are worried he has again then it’s not exactly the basis of a stable relationship. Get rid and move on with your life

DarkNightDelight well that's worrying