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Sophiee96 · 23/03/2018 10:16

Hi, I had a little snoop on my boyfriends phone the other day to see viva street in his web searches.. I wasn't sure what it was until I searched it myself to see it was for escorts?! I haven't mentioned anything as I just thought it was a pop up from porn? I've been on porn sites in the past and not once has that site popped up so am I just making excuses? I know if I say something he will deny it and get defensive so I don't know what to do? Is it just a pop up? Has he deliberately searched it? Help?!

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TheQueef · 23/03/2018 10:54

Trust yourself.
You know what he is really like. You know what you want from a relationship, is this it?

On edge, never being 100% sure? That's assuming he doesn't take advantage and grind you down for twenty years and then blame you for being suspicious so he might as well.
Mid 20's isn't the time to give yourself this for ever. Is he worth it?

DarkNightDelight · 23/03/2018 10:54

Don't saying anything yet, I'd keep watching and checking until you have solid evidence.

Or cut your losses now, men like this don't usually change, my ex didn't and is still the same now from what I hear.

Sophiee96 · 23/03/2018 11:02

DarkNightDelight thank you, I think I will. I don't want to call him out unless I know. I've not really questioned anything until now. Obviously coz of everything we went through last time just doesn't make sense to mess it up again.. I'm not going to let it rule me or the relationship. Thanks for the help guys, i just hope im wrong 😩 but by the sounds of things it's been searched on purpose!

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Sophiee96 · 23/03/2018 11:02

DarkNightDelight thank you, I think I will. I don't want to call him out unless I know. I've not really questioned anything until now. Obviously coz of everything we went through last time just doesn't make sense to mess it up again.. I'm not going to let it rule me or the relationship. Thanks for the help guys, i just hope im wrong but by the sounds of things it's been searched on purpose!

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yetmorecrap · 23/03/2018 11:09

Have a play around on your own phone, in my experience on an iPhone pop ups do not show up in history , the only way they do is if you have access to the router stats on WiFi , and WiFi was used, that way , they all show , viva street is a pretty common pop up yes from one particular large porn site

Sophiee96 · 23/03/2018 11:13

I've got an iPhone and he's got a Samsung.. when I saw it on his history it said... escorts & massage - I clicked on it and it took me to vivastreet... the websites next to it were dirty tinder. Hence why I thought it was the same as that and just popped up. Which pornsite is that exactly?

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Adora10 · 23/03/2018 14:16

Obviously coz of everything we went through last time just doesn't make sense to mess it up again

Or, this is who he is, he cheats, he gets his kicks elsewhere, he has no respect for you OP, this is the second time, surely you are going to end if for good this time, he never stopped.

SugarBlossom92 · 23/03/2018 14:32

It looks like he was probaly looking at escorts on viva street and then clicked on a popup/link for 'dirty tinder' . Can you try and have a look on his google web history?

DarkNightDelight · 23/03/2018 15:42

I've had the dirty tinder come up on p0rnhub before GrinHalo

Sites like viva street and another popular one is adultwork don't pop up. You have to be googling local escorts to find the sites.

I'd be checking his history on his phone and any other place you can.

I hope you're ok

troodiedoo · 23/03/2018 15:47

I've worked in adult dating for years. Men that use it to cheat will do it again and again. And their partners usually forgive them again and again.

SpiritedLondon · 23/03/2018 16:51

I'm pretty sure you would need to click on the pop up for it to appear in the history - so I would say he's been onto both the sites mentioned. Of course whether he's just looked or actually made contact is debatable.

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