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Can anyone decipher this bonkers msg?

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MozzchopsThirty · 25/02/2018 15:00

Utterly bonkers, I can't make any sense out of it.
It's from my ex .........

Good morning. Sorry for texting you last night, that was inappropriate although I do have a couple of things I'd like to say.....
I would like us to see if we can start fresh as I know how amazing it can be and the connection we have but I think we should both do our own thing, wether it be pof or dating or sleeping with whoever and see where it goes. If we are meant to be then and we can get some time together we can have a different conversation. I'm not a player and I'm not prepared to be played, but I've cancelled things with people too often since you got back In touch and going forward I'm not going to do that and you should do the same. The funny thing is I'm looking for something that I'm not going to find somewhere else but I'm going to try. I'd like us to meet up and get it back on track and have that conversation but if not I'll be just fine with the good memories we had. I hope this message reads ok and isn't nasty or attacking as honestly it's not meant to be. Hope you have a fun day with the boys. 👍x

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BackInTheRoom · 25/02/2018 22:00

Send him a non sensical text beck you know really twist his melon!! That'll bloody learn him!

Dadaist · 25/02/2018 22:11

OMG - how crap are you all at deciphering?
It’s bloody obvious!! And some of the replies I’ve read are so far it’s laughable - how do you ever date anyone?
OP - I’ve not read all the thread - but it’s fairly obvious that this guy feels you have messed him around - (maybe you have - maybe he has a fragile ego? - you know the truth) but he’s keen on you - and he’s insecure - and making out he’s got options and not that fussed and not committing yet and completely cool - except he’s none of those things. And that’s why his text sounds topsy turvey - he’s neurotic- that’s all!

troodiedoo · 25/02/2018 22:13

Oh it's ok, he's just neurotic. Great quality in a partner. Crack on.

Dadaist · 25/02/2018 23:20

‘That’s all’ means - there is nothing more -it’s hardly an endorsement! Lol

Gemini69 · 25/02/2018 23:27

he's a DICK Flowers

Weezol · 26/02/2018 09:33

I agree with FourFox and Flo. I could edit it down to two words, but then I am quite sweary.

MozzchopsThirty · 26/02/2018 11:04

Wezol which posters are you referring to? I can't see them

I've told him to piss off anyway
And he's said he's deleted my number 'as it's too hard seeing you online'

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SandyY2K · 26/02/2018 11:10

I think you gave him some hope of getting back together...now he's proposing an open relationship on both sides.

You call resurrected this...so taking responsibility for that would do you good.

MozzchopsThirty · 26/02/2018 11:27

Yes sandy I know I'm responsible for that
I was hoping things could be different after 7 months apart but it's clear neither of us can make it right

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PhelanThePain · 26/02/2018 11:30

How would 7 months apart change the fact you’re child despises him? Or is that not relevant?

MozzchopsThirty · 26/02/2018 11:57

She's 21 and doesn't live at home
But yes it's still relevant to a point

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PhelanThePain · 26/02/2018 14:30

My mistake, I assumed she was a child living with you.

Weezol · 26/02/2018 18:17

They posted yesterday at 1558 and 1559.

Excellent work on telling him to piss off. He sounds like exceptionally hard work for not much reward.

MozzchopsThirty · 26/02/2018 18:50

You're right Smile
And I'd actually rather be single than deal with all that stress and drama all the time second guessing what he's expecting or wanting, wondering whether he'll be pissed off at things.
It was tiresome towards the end

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