This is the first time I've ever posted anything but looking for some impartial opinions. I've just caught my husband out lying and I don't know if he's actually cheated too. So here's the story.....my husband took up fighting as a hobby about a year ago. Lots of women there but he's always been a gym goer so didn't think much of it. Over the last 6 months he's been training for a fight and the sessions have stepped up to 4 or 5 a week. My son and I have taken a back seat in his life for this time so he can pursue his dream which he says he's really grateful for. This week he had his first fight which was abroad so we couldn't go. He said he was going with his male trainer but failed to mention he was also going with another fighter - a woman. I was in regular contact with him by text and phone and was really happy for him when he won. The trouble started when his flight home was delayed for 2 days. The night he was due home he rang me about 10 times when I was in the bath. Nothing life or death which wasn't like him. What in fact he was doing was getting his call in before going out on the lash. I thought after something was fishy so checked on the club's Facebook and Lo and behold found he was away with this woman also. I was really annoyed that he would lie about who he went away and text him about 9pm but he ignored it. Roll on to the next day. I had a gut feeling something was up so went onto this women's Facebook and found posts at 1am talking about how her and my husband were involved in a pub brawl, how great are they, etc. No mention of the trainer being present. I phoned my husband who was still abroad and calmly asked him why he didn't respond to my text the previous night. He said he was drunk and thought it would be better to speak to me next day. I then asked who he was out with and he said the trainer only. I asked him again was he sure about his answer and he said yes(He's rubbish with Facebook so wouldn't know about looking up posts). Then I let him have it. Both barrels. He swears blind that he hasn't cheated but I'm really upset about the fact that he repeatedly lied and don't know whether to believe him. He always places such importance on honesty and trust and would go ballistic if the boot was on the other foot. I really believed these values were important to him but the fact that he was able to lie so easily when he thought I wouldn't catch him out now makes me very suspicious. So what do you think? Am I worrying unnecessarily or is there something in it?