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What is the nicest thing someone has ever said to you?

117 replies

LeeCallaghan · 03/02/2018 20:33

A woman called me lovely once , that's pretty nice

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thethoughtfox · 04/02/2018 09:20

We had to do task at work where we tell other people the qualities they bring and someone I very much admire told me I bring joy.

sempereadem1 · 04/02/2018 09:34

Years ago whilst studying I worked in a bread shop/cafe with a lot of ladies older than me whom I loved working with and had great relationships with. One of them turned to me and said I wish my Son would meet someone like you, you are such a lovely girl.

Another turned to me one day and said your Mam and Dad must be so proud of you.

I loved those. These were women of all different ages and backgrounds and I loved being around them. Their sense of humour, and just felt wrapped up by them all if that makes sense. When my first boyfriend broke my heart they were baying for his blood

When my daughter told me I was the kindest person she knew.

She also told me to stop being down on myself when I was being critical of myself over something - she's 6.

My sister told me I was the strongest person she knew.

My son often tells me I'm the best Mammy ever

Sarahh2014 · 04/02/2018 09:37

My ds telling me I'm beautiful and that I look like a princess

Follyfoot · 04/02/2018 09:42

I once went to DH's work place to pick him up. We absolutely aren't a lovely dovey couple, but apparently one of his colleagues told him afterwards you could see how happy we are together. Awww!

Dorabean · 04/02/2018 09:46

I lost my son last year. My mum isn't overly affectionate but she told me how in awe of me she has been in the way I've coped with it and how she's never been prouder. So many people have said how strong and brave I am. It's comments like that which keep me going.

drainsup · 04/02/2018 09:50

One of the lovely young girls in the pub said she thought I was beautiful. My DH (who is not at all at ease with giving compliments) murmured 'I think so too'. When he's struggling with his awkwardness, I remember this

LemonShark · 04/02/2018 09:52

The other day I was sat in costa with my friend and a wonderfully turned out gorgeous grey haired older lady came to my table on the way out, I stopped my conversation with my friend and smiled to ask her what was up and she said 'I just wanted to say you look absolutely gorgeous, really stunning' I was like 😮 A bit speechless and said wow really!? And she said 'yes, your hair, makeup, clothes, everything. You're stunning' then she left!

I do tend to dress fairly well most days, always have my hair done and makeup etc and that day I was wearing a nice new primark dress but it was completely unexpected and very very flattering. More than anything it was so nice because it was such a small thing for her to go out of her way to do but it made my week and put such a spring in my step!

And I loved it because I always compliment other women on something I've noticed, funnily enough in the queue earlier I'd told the lady behind me her nails were beautiful and asked what polish she used. I love lifting other people up. Later on in the Boots queue I was stood for ages next to this other older lady with the most immaculate makeup, really well done, glam and heavy and suited her so much. So when it was my turn to almost be server I told her I couldn't help but be impressed by her gorgeous makeup and I hoped to be able to do mine like that someday 😂 Her response was so heartwarming, she looked surprised and then just flushed with pleasure and said she couldn't believe it nobody has ever said anything like that to her before!

A compliment like that makes my week especially coming from other women, so I like to spread that feeling. Highly recommend it. Makes the world a nicer place!

Moonflower12 · 04/02/2018 10:02

@SandyBabyToes
I too have 'resting smiley face' and I like to grin at people I meet especially if they look alone etc. I like to think I might a very small difference to them.

I'm probably known as the local nutter!

SandyBabyToes · 04/02/2018 10:17

Moonflower You do make a difference

I myself am very smiley and 'not a care in the world' type but I do love it all the same when someone else is smiley too. Puts a spring in my step!

spankhurst · 04/02/2018 10:18

I love you.

Scullerymaid · 04/02/2018 10:19

It was my 8 year old son's Summer open day at school.
And his teacher told me that as I was walking up the long school driveway my son was beside himself with excitement when he saw me and was beckoning everyone to the window to see his pretty mummy in her best dress and lipstick.

Proseccopanda · 04/02/2018 10:26

An elderly neighbour (not even next door, right at the end of the street), saw me setting out in the school run one afternoon. She commented that she always sees me, and how busy it must be with 3 boys, and that I always look beautiful. I almost burst in to tears (I have low self-esteem).

n0ne · 04/02/2018 10:29

My Dad told me I was a natural at being a mother. This when DD1 was just a few months old, I had no experience of babies and was riddled with insecurities. He died when she was less than a year

ProfessorPickles · 04/02/2018 10:32

Me and a friend were discussing how different we are and saying it's funny we are such good friends because of this, they told me I have an aura about me, I think it's nicest thing someone's said to me

juddyrockingcloggs · 04/02/2018 10:46

When I was little my dad used to call me 'matey peeps', I loved it and when I had my son I rang him from hospital and he said 'you are going to be the best mummy. my matey peeps has got a matey peeps of her own'! It broke me but in a good way!

Worldsworstcook · 04/02/2018 10:47

Dd says the fact that I never get angry or overreact makes her comfortable telling me anything and everything that goes on her life.

Brokenbiscuit · 04/02/2018 10:49

I used to work with teenagers, and when I left, one of them made a speech at my leaving do. He said that that there was a kind of magic about me that made the world a brighter place for them even on their darkest days.I had supported this lad through some difficult stuff, and I was so touched by what he said. I will treasure those comments forever.

My friend said recently that I was a fabulous friend in her time of need, and that she regarded me more as one of her family.

And at Christmas, my 12yo dd made me a jar full of little letters telling me all the things she loves about me. Melted my heart.

Enidthecat · 04/02/2018 10:49

Ds's key worker at nursery told me she could tell u was a fantastic mum and that ds was incredibly well looked after and loved. Made me feel great because I'd say I was a distinctly average mum and could do much better!

Worldsworstcook · 04/02/2018 10:50

@Moonflower
@sandybabytoes

Maybe we are triplets! I too walk about everywhere, even the house, smiling. It's much easier to smile and see the good in things than grump. You can always find good in things and people, it's just easier for some to look for the bad!

ChrisPrattsFace · 04/02/2018 10:51

I have no self confidence, bad hair and not attractive etc, but always tried to make an effort.
A friend of a friend said she was jealous that I always look well put together, with my make up and hair styled.
Now I know she was probably joking - but it’s a passing comment that has stuck with me for around 10 years now.

LemonShark · 04/02/2018 11:20

"Today 10:29 n0ne

My Dad told me I was a natural at being a mother. This when DD1 was just a few months old, I had no experience of babies and was riddled with insecurities. He died when she was less than a year sad"

I'm so glad your dad was alive long enough to be able to see you as a mum and make that comment 💛

SandyBabyToes · 04/02/2018 12:50

Worlds Oh definitely, I can't bring myself to be miserable. I've tried it once and it was quite awful

n0ne · 04/02/2018 14:15

Thanks, LemonShark, me too

BeckyDawn · 04/02/2018 14:17

I was in a brewers Fayre with my 3 DC. I got up to refill my drink and an older gentleman came up to me and said that when we came in and sat down he and his DW heart sank but he felt he owed me an apology as it was an absolute delight for them to be able to enjoy their meals with such polite and well mannered children on the next table. He said that I should be proud of the 3 children I am raising.
I honestly don't know how I managed to not burst into tears. On my bad days I always remember what that man said to me.
(This particular restaurant is popular with young families and children are always running around unsupervised and being overly noisy).

Cadence70 · 04/02/2018 14:17

Friend at work " you'd be perfect if you had a cock" 😂😂

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