My ex posted my underwear back to mr

[Leogrrl]

I haven’t posted here in years but something both horrific and laughable happened today and I would really love a bit of virtual handholding.

I had a messy break-up about a month ago with a guy who went back to his ex. He lives abroad and last time I was at his apartment I left a pretty underwear set behind (deliberately). I had also lent him some books.

Today I received a parcel (his handwriting, but no note) with my books - along with the underwear and another sex-related item.

The books I appreciate back but the underwear and the other stuff? Wouldn’t any sane person throw these away?! Or at least message to ask if I would really want them back?

I feel so upset and cheapened. The items were all stuffed in an old supermarket carrier bag which makes it even worse.

Maybe he was accountant and knew they were expensive.

Or he worried about your month end stock take.

Posting was OK but he should’ve washed it first!

There was a thread on here a while back where the wife found the exs photos and she demand he post them back.

Something similar maybe?

This has got nothing to do with the perceived rights and wrongs of him returning your underwear. This is all about you still prioritising headspace for a man whose already moved on.