Hi, This is my first thread..seeking advice. Had a terrible three weeks with my dad being in hospital with cancer and finally passing away. Had the funeral last week. I'm engaged with wedding dates planned but confused with my DPs recent behaviour. I live in the UK and my family and DP's family live in India. I was in India the last three weeks and in hospital with my dad. My DP came from the UK for the funeral. On the day of the funeral just before the ceremony he called me to aside and asked whether he could ask me something, and I said yes. His request was whether I could could come and chat and cheer up his mum who was apparently having a headache. TBH there were such a crowd that i didn't even realise that i didn't chat to her enough on the day (and his family was in and out of our house the previous couple of days) and everything was kind of a daze being a family funeral. I was initially quite taken aback with the usual request but just went through the motions at the time in going to my intended M-I-L with Paracetamol, glass of water and asking how she was etc etc (who was now surrounded by her husband, her daughter and my beaming DP and looking quite chuffed with all the attention). i even touched her forehead to check the temp (not sure why I did that! 
). However, now after giving some thought about the events of the day, I have a bad feeling at the pit of my stomach about my DP and his poor judgement (?) and behaviour at a funeral in asking me to attend on his mother over a headache and need for attention when I was actually just about to bury my dad and in one of my lowest moments. I feel quite let down, annoyed, and not sure what to do. Not sure whether this is a glimpse of our future... and should I cut my losses now and run when I still can? Please, any advise is welcome. Thanks