I'm worried about my husband (Personal - sex related)

[worriedsadwife]

My husband and I have been together for 17 years we are both 34.

I am so worried about things and I have no one at all to talk to. The last year or so sex between us has been very difficult because he gets so tired so quickly - he gets very hot and then isn't able to continue - even if I am doing most of the work ( god I'm so rubbish at talking about this kind of thing!)

Firstly I am worried about why and secondly I'm kind of frustrated !

I was just looking for any opinions on what to do if anything !

My sister has type 2 diabetes and is very tender around the ribs.

Sorry to hear about your aunt OP.💐
Somethings got to give, regarding your Husband.
Maybe have a word with his GP, he may give you some pointers. Does your Husband have any existing medical conditions.?

Look at Tietze syndrome (costochondritis) DH has it. Really quite painful - inflammation of the sternum and ribs cartilage.

My Dad was like this, his arteries were blocked due to a genetic heart condition accompanied by an unhealthy lifestyle, he took a massive heart attack at 55. He was given an angiogram and ended up needing a quadruple heart bypass. Six years on, he is thankfully still here (unlike every other man before him in his family, who all died of massive heart attacks before they turned 56) It is strange as the same thing happened to his best friend, who had never smoked/ drank, he had a massive heart attack and died aged 42.