confused regular - about to embark on some kind of naughtiess

[ConfusedRegular]

Right.

I have a DP that I am in a good realtionship with and I have lovely children and a lovely house. My life is good.

BUT.. I have my own issues going back a long way. I have recently joined a support group to explore and confront these issues - no-one knows about this not even DP.

There is a man at my support group who has the same issues as me and there is a connection there that helps me so much and makes me so alive.

On Thursday I am going for lunch with him after session.

I know I should not do anything but - well - he gets me- a part of me that I think no-one else will ever get.

EllieG, don't feel bad, ok CR was/is clearly a piss taker and/or needs help but the story you have shared will help others.

Ta x

UCM, is that you?

Norty expat!

Poor UCM, will she ever live it down?

sorry I am not a time waster - I was using this thread as a kind of way to work out how I feel and what I should do. I posted under a different name and explained a real actual situation I am in. I wanted (and got) some very good advice. I then thought about everything and thought really hard about how I would feel if someone else had asked for advice on this and decided to post that - a kind of talking to myself.

Sorry if you feel exploited - that really was not my intention. Please can I assure you that this is a very real situation and thank those who gave me guidance and allowed me to clarify what I really think - as I posted it on here.

I am 'confused' but some of you on here have helped me think my way out of a very hard situation - conclusions I would not have come to without you. I think you have helped me see what this connection really is and have stopped my doing something silly.

thank you.

(not brave enough to reveal though.)

thank you particularly EllieG

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Thank you

I believe you confused

No worries CR - have done stranger things myself. Hope all goes OK for you. Hang on in there x

thanks for those replies and again sorry to those I pissed off.

I went for lunch. I remembered what you said. I made it very clear what my position was. I feel much happier now.

Thank you for your advice and support. You have HONESTLEY stopped me doing something I would regret for the rest of my life (he hinted hard enough!) I got sterngth from remembering what you had said to me.

It helped me more than I can tell you.

That's great CR! Well done!