A couple (A) we don't see regularly invited us over for an evening - we knew there would be other guests as well but not told who these were before we turned up.
In the event it was another couple (B) that we all know v well and for a long time (that's how we were introduced to couple A). Then it was announced that couple C were also coming (again we all know well and for a long time - but the last time we saw couples B and C was in September. At the time couple C mentioned that he had not been well and was going to have some tests ... and we never heard anything since.
Couple C turned up last - clear he had been really ill and mentioned had had series of chemo. I turned to her and said I was really sorry to hear that he was so ill - she said "oh didn't you know?"
Couple C leave first as he is really out of sorts and tired. Then couple B tells us he has terminal tumour and the prognosis is bleak.
When I discussed this afterwards with my husband, we were surprised no-one had thought to a) mention Couple C were also coming and b) that he has terminal cancer. Needless to say we both felt really bad for him and also not knowing anything about it, and admitting as much to her.
No-one apologised either for not letting us know - and in retrospect I'm really puzzled by the attitude of host Couple A and also Couple B - why no-one thought to give us some advanced notice. I just feel really unsettled about the whole experience (and not least upset for Couple C as cannot imagine what hell they must be going through).
Any words of comfort or wisdom from anyone would be very welcome, and thank you for taking the time to read this.