H being selfish

[Fulltimeparent]

Hi , don't know where to start really told H to get me a milkshake on the way back home because he had gone out of town. Preceding to say he was tired and needed the toilet so he didn't get it. I was really angry and upset being pregnant I really wanted one. Not really talking now I said I only asked for one thing you can't do it for me. I really don't ask for much. He starts shouting and swearing that was 3 days ago . He told my eldest to go and get one what was the point after swearing and shouting. He told me to make a cup of tea I said I wouldn't. I guess I just wanted to vent.

offred - what's SA.

Sexual abuse.

I’m kind of glad you didn’t name change TBH.

Sometimes we can’t see how bad things have got from the inside of it and it takes people on the outside to point it out.

You really really deserve so much better than this horrible man who shows you no love or care.

See, you lost me when you said you TOLD him to get you a milkshake. It sounds as though neither of you can speak to the other with even the most basic level of courtesy.

Uppaladder- I meant I asked if he could get a milkshake on the way back home.

Offred- thank you for being frank you are right when you are in a relationship you can't understand until you see from a different perspective.

Would you consider speaking to women’s aid?

I don't know what to do at the moment.