My bf is fairly controlling, he has in the past “made” me sleep in the same bed as him when he came in drunk, I have a phobia of vomit so wanted to avoid this by sleeping in our spare room. As soon as he noticed this he started shouting, demanding that I come back to bed. I refused, the argument escalated and he ended up pulling the covers off and dragging me out of the bed by my feet . He also told me if I didn’t sleep beside him the relationship was over. He gathered up some of my clothes and threw them into our front garden. ( how embarrassing)
This has happened more than once and one time he put his hands around my throat. I fled to my parents. Their head could not be further up his arsehole. They tell me every single time to go back home and resolve the issue. I think they like him more than they like me.
This man gets very aggressive when he drinks, one night I picked him up from town after a night out, he wanted to go to maccyd’s so we went through the drive through out of the blue he started screaming at me telling me I was at
The wrong window. (I wasn’t) anyway I stood my ground.
Another time also picking him up after a night out drinking he started telling me off for having our dog on my lap while driving. I said you need to have her on yours. He refused so I
Carried on. He starts arguing, dog goes in back of car and argument escalated and he started putting my hand break up on a dual carriageway. I was so upset and scared. I drove him to his dads because I knew if we went home he could do something physical.
Other little things happen on a daily basis, how I tidy or do things. Who I see, if I go** Out it is constant guilt...I’m quite a bold person so I refuse to do it. I’m not a quiet little mouse.
He cannot go into a shop by himself I always have to go in with him.
Our relationship is also sexless, I think we have had sex twice this year. And honestly it was so awful I just wanted it to end as soon as it started.
I have in the past left this man briefly for about a year and a half but my friends and family encouraged w to get back together with him. He is very charming around other people.
Not point in this post, other than to get it off
My chest.