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DP's Ex harassing me

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pinkliquorice · 02/11/2017 10:44

I’ve been with my DP 7 years, the beginning of our relationship kind of overlapped with the end of his relationship with his Ex who he was seeing for 4 years. It was all a bit difficult at the time but I never met her, she got married and we all moved on. Her and her husband recently broke up and for the past week I have been bombarded with messages about how my DP is a cheat, abusive, creep etc etc most of what she is saying is completely made up and she seems to just be adding stories every time I dismiss what she is saying.
Blocked her on Facebook and Instagram now but have been getting text messages and voicemails (no idea how she got my number)
What do I do? I understand that she’s upset her marriage isn’t working but why is she trying to ruin mine?
I don’t want to be rude but it’s doing my head in.

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2014newme · 03/11/2017 14:27

Yes bit the ops dp is texting her that's what brought it all. Up. It was his fault

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Pogmella · 03/11/2017 14:48

Maybe there's just a little more harmless overlap then, that's all. Seeing as that's no biggie.

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Worriedobsessive · 03/11/2017 15:01

SMJ, are you the OP?

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pinkliquorice · 03/11/2017 15:05

@Worriedobsessive

I am and I would agree her behaviour was quite irrational.

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SMJYellow · 03/11/2017 15:14

No, I'm not the original poster. I was on the receiving end of a lot of abuse and harassment (and it's still on going, I will be taking the legal route).

Amongst many messages of abuse and poison, there were messages referring to the past going back 10/12/15/20 years ago. Like the person remembers something of me going to the toilet and she claimed I only went to the toilet to keep her out from it or some such rubbish. Its completely unrelated to this anyhow but I do know, it's very difficult to deal with someone like this who stores stuff away in their minds, ready to flick back on a later date.

In relation to the op, its not healthy or mentally sound for the ex to refer to the past after all these years.

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