This has been driving me nuts. I think my married friend fancies my husband. First it started that she instigated they share lifts to our children's rugby matches, then at Christmas we all had a few wines and she was sat up closed she to him on the couch, virtually on top of him, chatting away sharing private jokes. It wound me up a treat. We walked them home (her and her DH) as it was a nice eve, and when we all said goodby she "accidentally" kissed my DH on the lips. My son saw it and confronted my DH on the walk back.
The final straw was when I saw our mobile phone bills - DH's was unusually more than normal, and on one eve they exchanged 37 texts. As it transpires, the following month he had arranged a surprise birthday party for me and she had been helping him to arrange it, hence the surge in texts.
She used to invite herself round, and in one occasion when DH was watching the football, kept finding excuses to sit with him and join him, and wouldn't leave - even when my DH told her that he didn't want to keep her from catching up with me!
My DH swears there is nothing in it on his part, he sees her only as a friend and wife of his mate, and he has totally backed off. However, whenever I think things have calmed down I find my suspicions rising again. A couple of weeks ago she called by when my DH was working from home and he said he couldn't get rid of her, despite lots of hints. She knew I was at work.
I see her running past our house (she lives at the other side of the village) and driving by a lot. I feel like she's often checking to see who is home.
I possibly wouldn't feel this way if it wasn't for her ignoring me in public of late and avoiding me. Her behaviour is just so weird. Yet when my DH is around she is jovial and upbeat.
Am I being paranoid?