So the husband and I are in a bad place.
Married just over 10 years, together 15. Three children all school age. Both have stressful full time jobs now.
Things started to go downhill when I went back to work and didn't get the support I'd given him when he was forging his way.
I'm fucking sick of wifework and emotional labour falling to me.
I'm resentful, don't want to have sex, moody all of the time, sniping, harsh and recently when he had an injury just saw it as another way for him to do fuck all (when I needed him
Most - packing us all up for a half term trip). I resented him so much for injuring himself. I'm a terrible nurse! If he has treated me with such disdain you'd have told me to LTB.
So we can't seem to live together.
I want to try counselling. Where do you find a good one? Has anyone got any stories from their marriage counselling working for them? Or not?
We are so at odds now, we fairly hate each other. We used to be best friends. The laughs we had!! Distant memory.