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Mumoftwoandover · 29/10/2017 10:37

Hi, I will try to be quick...
What would you do if when in a night out with your partner and (his) friends, they all go to a cubicle I t he toilet to do cocaine ?
As far as I know my partner don’t use to do it, but this friend of his always do.
At some point this guy came to my house and did it in my kitchen, which my partner joint him (first time I ever saw him doing it), and I went absolutely crazy specially because our children were in the house .
He been warned and after yesterday I am heartbroken, not only because I opened the boys toilet door and saw them all in the cubicle but because I said I was going home, he was calling me crazy to all his friends and didn’t give the house keys.
I also had no money and my phone battery died, I had to walk home and wait more than 2 hrs to get in as he didn’t come back.
I also was so frustrated and upset that I had a asthma attack in the way home and couldn’t stop crying.

It was a hell of a nightmare and I am so upset.
I do t want to talk to him
I don’t want to look in his face but I thing that I will have to and sort something out

Please... I just need some kind words ...

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Mumoftwoandover · 30/10/2017 15:02

No apologies so far.
I’m standing my ground (although I’m heartbroken)
I have access to our joint account as I am the more responsible to manage our bills.
I can say I don’t have money because I am not employed, I depend on him.
My family abroad would do anything I judge urgent if needed but going back home is not an option as he would never allow me to take our son away.
I think that I shouldn’t also leave the house we bought and made myself homeless with two kids.
I will look for professional help to see where I can stand.
I am feeling awful, sad, everyhing you can imagine

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