Following on from 'is he just lovely' thread

[MozzchopsThirty]

I also have a shit radar for men who are manipulative or controlling or complete nobs!

I've been out with this guy 3 times and have made it very clear that I'm busy with lots of stuff
He's said he understands and is happy to fit it whenever etc

So is anyone happy to look at these messages for me and dissect if he really is lovely & understanding?

Thanking you

I agree with Trolls , op.

You've set the bar really low by already needing to compare this new guy to a batshit guy from your past.

He sounds needy, over invested, insincere and frankly... only already married men have been so over the top in their appreciation for me. Married men who have been quickly kicked to the kerb.

Those texts made my skin crawl.

Eugh....my radar would be pinging! But then I'm a cynical 60 yr old who has heard it all. This wouldn't impress me, I'd find it a bit too much after three dates.

Eurgh I used to be a magnet for these types. It's like they've read a manual. Just does nothing for me so I've never gotten far enough to find out if they are nutters.

I want to make sure your always happy xx

Thanks makes me twitch BUT he might just be a crap texter if everything else seems ok.