Hello. I am with DP for two years. We have plans for him to move in with me at the beginning of the new year and later start a family. There is something that bothers me , i keep telling myself that i am overreacting and i push it at the back of my mind . But its there all the time .
DP is on his thirties. It seems to me that there is something odd (?) about the frequency and the reasons that he changes jobs.
I must say that he never claimed benefits (i know for sure that he hasnt since we met, as for before that he says he never did) and never asked me for any money . And he seems to work hard , at least thats what i think. But since i met him he changed 4 (or 5 ,not sure) jobs
When i met him he was working for a company related to his field. I though that everything was fine but one day out of the blue he decided to leave and change town to pursue " a better future". From what he said later , the company didnt gave him the opportunities he needed etc. Ok so far seemed reasonable to me
Then he found job number 2. This lasted a month or so. He seemed fine with it but soon started complaining that it was physically very hard and was hurting his body causing him aches etc and he left
Then job number 3. This lasted couple weeks if i remember right. The manager didnt like him and something happened (cant remember details) and asked him to leave
I am not sure if there was one more and then he ended up in his current job. He is there 6 months and he started complaining about it from the beginning . The manager didnt like him, then this changed to they dont pay enough etc. But he stayed nevertheless. The last few weeks they made them work 6 days a week , long shifts.and he is exhausted and now this became the reason for him to want to quit
I am 40 and i changed in twenty years less jobs than he did in two years
On the other hand i keep telling myself that his reasons are valid (do i fool myself here?) and there is not reason for me to find this odd