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It's my fault he fell out of love

60 replies

Happytobefree17 · 16/08/2017 00:29

According to my ex, my not forgiving him for having an affair was what made him fall out of love with me in the end.

WTAF?

He actually said this in all seriousness! And I am grateful he did because I no longer have an ounce of regret about ending the relationship.

To think I had considered giving it another go! Thanks ex, you helped me dodge a bullet there!

OP posts:
Happytobefree17 · 17/08/2017 16:00

He'll know I've read it because it's a WhatsApp.

But I will ignore. Thank you for the head wobble

OP posts:
Anniegetyourgun · 17/08/2017 16:10

It ought to be an old music-hall song: "The Angel with the Fanny like a Bucket". It's got a good rhythm to it. Max Miller would have done it justice. I don't think, though, it comes under the heading of "respect" by most people's definition.

tribpot · 17/08/2017 16:12

I suspect his next message will accuse you of being childish for not responding. Keep ignoring. For preference, block.

Happytobefree17 · 17/08/2017 16:13

Haha, your post really made me laugh Annie Grin

OP posts:
Happytobefree17 · 17/08/2017 16:14

Yes. He is the childish one.

OP posts:
PollytheDolly · 17/08/2017 16:25

Narcissist. No contact ever again.

Thank god you're out OP. Flowers

PollytheDolly · 17/08/2017 16:27

No, ignore it - being nasty hasn't worked in terms of getting your attention, so now he's trying nice. As soon as you get sucked back in, he'll turn back to nasty.

Yup. Push, pull, push, pull.

What a shithouse.

TheCuriousOwl · 17/08/2017 16:31

OP this guy sounds just like my ex.

Ignoring him will drive him INSANE. Grin

Honestly because you should be grateful for his attention! And when you don't give a shit... well, who do you think you are??

He will be seething.

Best advice is just to block and ignore but if you have the resolve and you want to be childish, if he messages you, don't open it for a couple of days because he will see you've been online but not read his message Grin

pointythings · 17/08/2017 17:21

However good he is in bed, you don't need him. Invest your resources in a choice arrangement of plastic friends.

qazxc · 19/08/2017 09:52

Ignore him. He's just trying to suck you back in.

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