Help! Is my boyfriend up to no good

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I've Been with my bf 15 months. He's 4 children. 2 with one and 2 with another. Nether know about Me. The one mother calls him for diy, help around the house, supporting thru bereavement and family functions etc. Hes there like a shot. Only brings it up through chance of me asking how was your day. Also his latest ex. 6 years of on and off they did. Never lived together or had kids or engaged is is STILL calling, texting and popping round. He says he answers to some contact but all. He says he doesn't want her making a scene on his door step. Wants the quiet life. Only tells me of the contact when i ask. Confessed 12 months after me having a suspicion and asking several times that he has a 3rd phone. Said he hid it from me because he doesn't want me calling it. REALLY! Wtf. Help... what would you do. Oh.... we live 45mins from each other.

Get shot.

Get rid.

Honestly? Break up, he is really really not worth your time and energy. Don't stay with him, have a baby and end up being the third single parent family in his life.

Dump and rid yourself of his baggage. He loves the attention from his ex's. Find a less complicated man.

Run, run away................ FAST

Too too much unless you like drama? You're about the 8th wheel, is that what you want?

Dump him as fast as you can.

Adios Muschachos....

If you continue in this relationship then you are tattooing Doormat to your forehead. Leave this asshole.

Fuck that, dump him.

Walk away while you still can.
You actually sound like the other woman.
Almost a year and a half he hasn't even told his children about you. Do the ex's know about you? Or are you his dirty little secret?

Leave.

Dump

Run forest run x

Get shot of him

Wants the quiet life.

Like how my mum and grandfather wanted to give up smoking for years and years until they finally stopped because the dead stop smoking after cremation? Girl, there are entire lives spent like that.

Sounds like you're not his DP but his OW. Whether you are or whether that's just how it seems doesn't really matter. He is not fully committed to you, isn't open and honest with you and if he isn't shagging at least one of the other women I'll eat my hat.

Pretty unanimous, OP. LTB.

It shouldn't be this hard after only 15 months I would leave sorry

You are the Other Woman. He is still with one of them.

You being 45 mins away, is ideal for him.

He has 3 phones?? Fucks sake, that is NOT NORMAL unless you are dating 3 women

And 4 kids?? That alone has me breaking out in a sweat.

Run.

Run... very fast.

He sounds like he's collecting a harem. Do you want to join them?

And 3 phones??

LTB.

Unless you are in Midwest America and he's a polygamous Mormon, then I would say you are not even his girlfriend