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Help! Is my boyfriend up to no good

39 replies

Taz14 · 23/07/2017 01:03

I've Been with my bf 15 months. He's 4 children. 2 with one and 2 with another. Nether know about Me. The one mother calls him for diy, help around the house, supporting thru bereavement and family functions etc. Hes there like a shot. Only brings it up through chance of me asking how was your day. Also his latest ex. 6 years of on and off they did. Never lived together or had kids or engaged is is STILL calling, texting and popping round. He says he answers to some contact but all. He says he doesn't want her making a scene on his door step. Wants the quiet life. Only tells me of the contact when i ask. Confessed 12 months after me having a suspicion and asking several times that he has a 3rd phone. Said he hid it from me because he doesn't want me calling it. REALLY! Wtf. Help... what would you do. Oh.... we live 45mins from each other.

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SandyY2K · 23/07/2017 20:58

He's not worth your time. Why waste another minute on him, even he has openly declared to having a phone he doesn't want you calling.

Is there a reason you didn't decide to end the relationship before posting here on MN? Because as much of a useless BF he is, you need to ask yourself why you actually put up with that crap.

thegoodnameshadgone · 23/07/2017 21:05

Unless you are in Midwest America and he's a polygamous Mormon, then I would say you are not even his girlfriend

Someone has a point here......

GrumpyGoose · 23/07/2017 21:07

Personally, I wouldn't be happy with any of this and at only 15 months together I'd cut my losses and move on.

Gemini69 · 23/07/2017 21:20

You deserve better lovely Flowers

ijustwantfiveminutespeace · 23/07/2017 22:47

You are worth more than that.
I am sure you are a lovely wonderful person who deserves to be treated better. Find someone worthy of you. X

Ellen28 · 23/07/2017 23:02

100% get out of there and find someone who treats you right

WannaBeDelgadaToFitInToMyPrada · 23/07/2017 23:14

Yeh in your shoes, the four kids with two babymommaz, would make me pause to wince If I had to tell my friends his story. So just make sure you're not his third babymomma because you will have 100% of the responsibility! and he'll have to get a fourth phone for the next woman.

Creampastry · 24/07/2017 07:05

You really need to ask? Get rid.

hellsbellsmelons · 24/07/2017 11:54

The hills are that way >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

Taz14 · 24/07/2017 19:08

Just found out yesterday he's still got all the naked photos of his conquests. I asked why would he need to hold onto them. He says he doesn't look at them which is what he thinks I'm thinking. He just has them. I asked him to delete them cos it's plain wrong and he refused. Said he doesn't see what the harm is add he doesn't look at them. WTF!!!!!. now I'm gonna leave him. Just getting my stuff and I'm done. #imamug

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number1wang · 24/07/2017 19:11

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pinkyredrose · 24/07/2017 19:33

Well done on leaving him. He sounds a total bellend.

Gemini69 · 24/07/2017 20:36

Well Done girlie... you hold your head up high and keep walking Flowers

hellsbellsmelons · 24/07/2017 21:23

Oh dear.
I hope you did leave.
And if you know those girls please tell them about the naked pics.
Creepy sleazebag.
Yeuk!!!

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