Am I being completely naive

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Please help any advise would help me get this terrible situation cleared up.

I recently used my DH laptop to check my email and because he had not logged out his e mail account opened. There in front of me was an email from a site called sex with no strings I clicked on it as was quite intrigued but to my horror a full profile with my husbands face popped up with all his credentials.

When I approached DH he told me that someone that he recentley had a falling out with must have put him on there to cause him trouble.

Pur - lease!! is this even possible for someone to just put another person on a site such as this?! I'm in turmoil i'm not computer savvy.

I would imagine you could put anyone's photo and details on a website although, usually you have to verify your account by email so they would have needed access to his email account!
Looks very like he's put this on himself I'm afraid and he's trying to wriggle out of it.
Have you had reason to suspect anything before?

Errrr no, he is totally having you on! What an arsehole!

Doesn't look good

Haha, no, he did it himself OP.

Its highly unlikely someone else did this. Sorry. As Isit said, you need to verify the account and that's either by a code sent to his phone or an email link.

If it smells like bull shit then it is most probably bull shit.

I am sorry Op, what an awful shock.

Please read up on the cheaters script, he will minimise and lie, as he already has done.

Get yourself checked for stds at your local gum clinic.

Get your ducks in a row, tell him to leave as you need space to work out what you want to do.

What a turd he is.

Your husband is lying out his ass. Time to take off the blinders and make plans. And for fuck's sake, get yourself tested for STI's and stop having sex with him.

Sorry OP, no way would someone else be able to access his email, his password and then click on the site's link when approved and accepted, I am really sorry but he's a complete cunt.

Could someone?
Yes.

Would someone? Unlikely, but possible.

Has someone? I highly doubt it. If they had completely the right details it's either him or someone who wants you to break up.

I'd 99% say it's him. I

Actually you can set up these accounts verify with another email address. Then edit the profile to another email address.

I know because we have just sacked someone for doing this to their manager in my office.

The police got involved as it was harrasment (other things went off as well) and they advised the company advused another email had been used during set up. Which is how we knew who it was. They used their own personal email address which we had from them applying. It was dealt with very serious as it was misuse of company email.

However, honestly, i would be really sceptical if this was dh. Who has he fallen out with? Did you know he had, had a falling out with their person before this?

Check whether that photo is on his laptop/phone.

If I found something like that about myself, I wouldn't rest until I discovered how it had happened. If he's just casually saying, "Oh someone else must have done it" then I think he's lying, as he would be horrified (normally) to find out what happened.

Has he informed the Police, I bet not.

Good point, why was he not angry about it? i would be absolutely foaming angry if someone did that to me.

Hunni this isn't good. If your not sure check through his emails including the trash and sent. They're maybe message alerts or confirmation of registration.

Really sorry

If he's predictable and you know his usual passwords etc why don't you log in using his email address and one of said passwords from your phone/tablet/device

He's feeding you bullshit saying someone else made it.

Thank you all its becoming very clear.
Isitjustme
I did check his work diary once because he was late home and it didnt add up. There was a four hour lapse when i asked him he said that he had writen it down wrong. I checked a week later and he had minipulated the time from 15.30 to 18.30

Is he home at the moment? Does he think you believe his bull?

He is also keeps all his passwords to himself, locks on phones etc. Tried adding him as a friend on facebook and he deleted his account rather than have me in his friends list. He does have his alias facebook account to fall back on!!

He sat on the sofa opposite lol

This is incredibly sketchy behaviour

Offer to go to the police with him to report that someone has done this maliciously. Insist that you want to support him in this. I guess he will backtrack

He is your husband and recused tonhave you on fb?! Id assume he blocked you rather than deleted his account

Oh my god why are you with him?! He's obviously a cheat. You can do better. Imagine being in a relationship where you don't have to worry and actually be happy.

He told me he deleted it as he suddenly didn't like facebook anymore. I cant actually find him but he may have just blocked me. It seems he is hiding the fact that he is actually married from someone. I also noticed on his facebook before that he lived in a different town from me