Does anyone else have an internal conflict with their husband/partner looking at and appreciating naked women and hating him doing it, but believing that it is just biology.. all or most males of all species are obsessed with the female. I feel like it's just pointless to be bothered about it as it is what it is, but then I really don't like it.. I have had c-sections and definitely have a damaged body at the moment but he's looking at pictures of young unblemished bodies. But I was bothered by it when I had a good body and lots of confidence.
I've not said anything and I don't want to control him or stop him, I just sometimes feel that I'd like to be single forever and not have to worry about what men get up to.. and just have casual encounters when I feel it and not be emotionally invested.
I was reading a reddit question yesterday "what do men wish women knew about them?" and lots of answers were about how they can't control the urge to look.
If that's how men are then I accept it, I just don't want to be exposed to it. I'm only 32 but it makes me feel past it, and will only get worse as I age.