My husband and I have only had sex about six times in the last few years.
Since our child was born, sex has dwindled to three times a year.
A couple of years ago, he had an operation to repair a hernia.
He says that, since his operation, he rarely gets erections and that he wouldn't want sex anyway as he thinks it would hurt.
He has seen the GP but said there is nothing the GP can do to help.
He says he probably won't have sex with me again, but might do at some point.
The issue isn't just the lack of sex, it's the lack of any physical affection. No kisses or hugs, unless I ask for them. Even then, they are brief and cursory.
He is a great father. Our teenage son couldn't be separated from him.
I am so sexually frustrated that I cannot sleep. Masturbation doesn't fulfil the deep need in me to have regular and satisfying sex with the man I love.
I can't face a lifetime of this - it's awful.
Can anyone advise or help?