Don't know how I feel about it..

[Tippitoesandbuttonnose]

Okay so I've been seeing a guy for about 2 months now (both early 20s).
I have just reminded him that I never actually knew how many people he had slept with. So he tells me 9 and a few have been more than once. He hasn't ever been in any relationships at all so all these have been casual. All my sexual partners have been from long term relationships.

So here's the thing I asked if he still knew any of them to which he tells me he still has quite a few on Facebook and if he saw any of them out (we go out on a Saturday night very often) that he would say hi. I feel completely awkward about this because we are exclusive but not in a relationship and I know full well he means he would say hi infront of me.

Am I being silly to think if you're seeing someone exclusively that one night stands and casual sexual partners are completely unacceptable to be in contact with?

OP, like other posters have said your post sounds like you're very immature.

I am also early 20's and I have been with my other half 8 months, and I still hasn't crossed my mind to ask him how many previous partners he's had.

He can speak to who he wants when we go out. If you trust him, there shouldn't be a problem who he says hello to.

You need to grow up op.

I've told my boyfriend I can count the number of men I've shagged on one hand.

And I could if I had fifty fingers.

You need to stop fuelling your anxiety. Just enjoy what you have. I wouldn't call it a relationship after 2 months either